Found My New Love*

Dont be surprise with my headline for this post. Anyway, I did finally found my new love. That is Famous Amos Oatmeal Raisin. I bought it last Thursday and I cant stop thinking about it. Now the cookies is a must have for me everyday. It gives me the new meaning of love and I am totally in love with the chocolate cookies. The crispiness sounds of the cookies make me fly high and not to forget the gummy textures in my mouth gives me pleasures that I cant explain in words. Should I say more about it. Tell you what..Why dont you get cookies and experience it yourself. You wont be regret. Trust me.

But then, I need to stop indulging myself with this cookies or anything else because I am going to start my diet again starting tomorrow. I aim for 50kg by end of this month. Wish me luck on my new challenge. I also need to start on my exercise with power walk at the malls...Hehehehe..What else if not starting my window shopping for my Gawai Harvest Festival in June. I dont want to be chubby Marvic when I am going home for a holiday back home in June.

P.S: God please grant me my wishes for today.I know it is a lot. I'll be the nicest person you ever have in this centuries...well..I'll try to be one actually.

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2nd day

Yesterday was my 2nd day in EMBS and I was forced to stayback in the office for a meeting from 2.30 pm until 7 pm...I was already making faces in the meeting because someone who pick me up already waiting for me from 5 pm till 7 pm...That friend of mine had to wait for two hours and dear friend, I am so sorry for the delayed. If in the previous department, I involved more in marketing and events/exhibitions as well in advertising. But in EMBS, I need to learn more on operational part which I had not touch it for more than 2 years. Need to catch up very soon as there are lots of project that need to be plan and excuted for East Malaysia.

Today, there will be another meeeting but luckly its only club meeting for the staff. I was elected as one of the club committee and now taking care of the Sport & Recreation Bureau. Me and my partners plan lots of sports activities and tournament for 2009 - 2010. Soon, there will be bowling tournament and badminton, internal and external tournament. I am excited about this as all of these activities will fill in my spare time starting in May since I will graduates soon...Now, I need to get back to my work...lots of data need to be compile...

1st day at New Department*

As you can read from the headline, today is my first day working at the new department. I am no longer in Marketing Communication Department in this company. I asked for a transfer to East Malaysia Business Sector. Basically, I still do things that I did in my previous department but now I will only focusing on East Malaysia. There is a long story why I asked for a transfer which I think I am not going to put it here because I don't want to offend some people who might be reading this post in the future.

Yesterday, I was a bit down and sad because I was about to leave my best teammate ever. We has been working together for the past two years since I was transferred here from Kuching. I sent them my last email as their teammate and I was crying when I typed it in. Here is my fave lines in the email

"Thanks for accepting me when I was still new and naive back then in 2006. You guys had taught me lots of things about work, life and everything. I will treasure every jokes, tears and angers that we had share together for the past years. You guys has been a good brother, sister and mother to me while I was far away from my own. This department has been my 2nd home in KL. Dont forget to include me in any of your afternoon activities which I loves so much...."

The real write ups still here with me and touched my heart every time I read it through. But then, I need to move on with my life and this decision has to be made for my own good.

1st day in here, I feel so cold because of the temperature in this office. There were only 5 of us in this sector, including the BOSS A and his PA. BOSS A is not in yet because he is in Kuching for a meeting with the manager K. PA is not in the office until this friday. So, left is me and my new partner in crime L. Again, I work among tough guys like what I had back then in Kuching. There are few programs plan that I need to go through in a week before start my frequent journey, fly in and out from KL-KK-KCH. Yay!!!! Now I have the oppourtunity to see my mom and dad. Thanks GOD for your new gift to me...Love YOU

NO More Tears But SMILE

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Tagged by Fazzy

Imagine you're walking in this endless desert, you're tired, thirsty and hungry, after walking many hours.
Now .. a majestic building appears before you.

1. What appears before you is
a. A castle
b. A museum
c. A hotel
d. A place of worship

my answer - c (pampering myself at 5 star hotel)

2. You enter this building through the
a. Window
b. Door
c. Balcony
d. Underground tunnel

my answer - b

Inside you find the place very majestic and beautiful.. Suddenly you hear a knock on the door.. you open the door...and find someone you really want to be with...

3. Who is the person?

my answer - someone that I am in love with laa....

You continue walking and you see a staircase leading to the next floor

4. Is it spiral or straight?

my answer - spiral

You walk up the stairs... counting the steps as you walk..

5. How many steps are there? (any number from 1 to infinity)

my answer - 50 (what kind of hotel that doesnt have lift?)

Next you enter a room...

6. How big do you want it to be?
a. The size of a fish tank
b. The size of a cupboard
c. The size of a jungle
d. The size of the pacific ocean

my answer - as big as my parent's home...hehehehe

7. What do you want the color of the walls to be?
a. Red
b. Purple
c. Yellow or orange
d. Rainbow colors

my answer - Rainbow colors (I want to be in a magic room)

A table appears before you....

8. Is it round or square or triangular or simply shapeless?

my answer - a big round table

There is a basket with 5 fruits on the table.. cherries, apples, oranges, grapes and watermelons.

9. Choose a fruit.

my answer - grapes


What is the purpose of this tag is unknown but it helps me to create my own world of magic at desert....Now, I think I would like to tag Lotfi and Nazif as both still and used to live in Saudi Arabia.

House Plan*

The front view

1st Floor

Lower floor

I was surfing on the net on house plan for my sister. She plan to build a house next to our parent back in hometown. So, while I were doing that, I kinda like this house plan. It is not that big and not that small..which is just nice for a family of four. Then, I were dreaming away to my future and creating an imagination of my own about owning this kind of house. It totally has everything that I need. A big master room, big bathroom, additional bedrooms, a family room, a study room, complete with nice kitchen and dining room as well. Again not to forget is my own wardrobe room (which obviously going to share with the one). This is a must have room I must say because I know myself very well. The best part is the build in garage and a backyard patio for barbecue purposes. I am dreaming away right now and imagining myself to live and to own this kind of house in the future.....Pisces is indeed a dreamer...

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Ahmad Nazif

Potrait of Me

Again taken and edited by friends of mine. Thanks you guys.

Model Wanna Be?

That is me and Atie's daughter. Does we look like a model wanna be...This picture were taken August last year during MAHA at Maeps's Serdang. Will post more pictures soon.

Potrait of me

A potrait of me that taken and edited by a friend. Love this so much. What do you guys think of it? I think that I need to do something about my hair style.

Blogger Gathering - Final Call

Again, I was call to post about this blogger gathering that were plan to be held in KLCC, 3 pm on Sunday, 12th April 2009. So far, there were only 4 of us that agree to join in. So, do bare in mind that this gathering is still open to all blogger that interested to join in. In that case, if anyone out there really interested to join us, please come over to KFC Restaurant, KLCC, 3 pm on Sunday 12th April 2009. In order to recognize each other, I would put a stalk of red rose on the table. I'll be there from 3 pm until 4 pm while enjoying my KFC meal....hehehehe

See u there at this 1st Blogger Gathering !!!!

How to Find True Love - Part 3

A romance writer shows her children... (By Nadine Crenshaw)


5. Only one person can be crazy at a time. Life is seldom a smooth highway of cooperation. you get angry. Your mate becomes obsessed. either one of you can become totally obnoxious. But you cant both go wild at the same time. One of you has to stay in adult mode. Please be forewarned: sometimes these attacks of craziness last a long while. Days. Weeks. Months.

One of my more prolonged bouts came in the 1970s when I started reading back-to-the-land literature. I spouted undigested theories about the beauty of nature versus the ugliness of modern civilization until your dad agreed to move to a three-acre farm. I bought a hundred chicks, two piglets and seeds for a garden - and commenced to learn a few realities, such as the relationship between irrigation and weeds, be nurturing animals and arranging for their butchering. When I suggested we move back to town, your father nodded his head in stalwart relief.

We laugh about it now, though other incidents even time hasn't made funny. Some of them wear my name, some wear his. Whenever you're feeling martyred, remember, your turn will come. So learn early two of the most important sentences in marriage: "I'm sorry" and "You're forgiven."


An acquaintance of ours pouts if husband forgets their wedding anniversary or the anniversary of the day they met. he appeases her by taking her out to a showy dinner every month or so - but otherwise he spends as little time with her as he can. They have fallen into a surface display of romance, perpetrated by the myths of an advertising age. It is a glossy shell that has little to do with the real thing.

The real thing has to do with love. And it isn't always glamorous or easy. Love helps you get to the bathroom when you're sick. Love agrees to disagrees on serious subjects. When you walk out the door in a rage, love trails after you, shouting, "You cant get away from me. I love you, and I'll follow you wherever you go!"

And so in my sleepless hours, Robby and Johanna, I wish for you that moment when you look up and find someone watching you as if you were a candle, as if you were the only light in a world of darkness.

The End

How to Find True Love - part 2

A romance writer shows her children ... (By Nadine Crenshaw)


3. Talk about everything except divorce. I was not a talker when I met your dad. In my childhood, I'd learned that it was best to remain silent around my alcoholic father, who could twist any statement into a weapon. But Robert stubbornly refused to accept my silence. It was my first intimation of the strength of his love.

There is only one subject, we discovered that should be taboo in a marriage: divorce. The mere mention of this word brings it into the realm of possibility. Your father and I learned this the hard way. During a trying period years ago, I found myself calmly saying, "Maybe we should get a divorce.: He answered, "Maybe we should."

How did we get to the point? Simply by mentioning the ugly. "D" word in times of anger ("If we cant work things out we might have to consider divorce") and by slipping it sideways into discussions ("If we ever got a divorce...").

The day we frankly confronted the divorce option, we were not terribly angry with each other, but we had gradually let divorce become a real choice in our thinking. We made a pact, then and there, never again to mention the word "divorce" in association with us. we haven't dared break that pact in 17 years.

4. Want the best for each other. Being married doesn't mean that you are glued together. One of the wonderful things about love is that it binds without crippling. Remember, not all your activities, friends or enthusiasms will be the same as your mate's.

When your father went back to college for his teaching degree, it meant starting over, but I wanted him to fulfill his potential. When I decided to abandon paramedical training and become a writer, he encouraged me. Loving someone doesn't mean your goals are always identical. But if you want something, then your mate wants it for you too.



* To be continued for part 3

How to Find True Love

I always have problem with a relationship and until now I am still not sure who is the one that I should shared my life with. However, I got this interesting article and would like to share it here..


A romance writer shows her children ...

How to Find True Love
By Nadine Crenshaw

As a writer of romance novels, I create exotic fantasies. My heroines are beautiful, my heroes gilded with a touch of the legendary, my plots larger than life. Fans sometimes think of me as an expert on love, but my children never ask my advice. When I try to give it anyway, they roll their eyes. to then, I'm just Mom - too impossibly old-fashioned and ordinary to understand the winds of their times.

Since they have reached their teens, however, they often painful searches for that special someone have left me sleepless many a night. There are so many things I wish for them that I am utterly powerless to provide. Sometimes I imagine a little scene. Robby and Johanna ask me, "Mom, how do I find true love?" Here is what I say:

1. Understand that love is a state of mind and heart. It is not dependent on beauty, physical strength or the romantic settings I use in my books. Though it may begin with infatuation, it moves from physical attraction in a golden curve, often involving sacrifice, to the deepest bond between two people.

Love for me is specific: I speak of your father, Robert, my husband of 23 years. To you our marriage is as plain as vanilla ice cream, but it is the core of my life. Ours is the kind of love to which romance novels are just a prelude. Your dad doesn't arrange intimate dinners or second honeymoons. He doesn't bring me flowers. What he does is keep my car repaired and full of gasoline so I'll never be stranded. He vacuums the carpet when your grandmother is coming, not because he cares, but because he knows I care. Though your dad is not a pet person, when our old cat died, Robert buried hint for me. He held me while I wept. After I'd mourned for several months, he encouraged me to adopt a kitten. So remember, true romance, the enduring kind, often comes so cleverly disguised its easy to overlook.


2. Settle for nothing less than total commitment. I've seen couples live together in a trial marriage. That seems as logical as bitting into an orange to see if you have an appetite for an apple.

I know a man who has bitten one orange after another for years. He claims women are too into themselves to commit to a relationship, but he's got it backward. No one can open up the depths of her heart to a mere experiment. A marriage certificate wont solve all your problems, but until you have the guarantee of one, you cant begin the struggle to forge yourselves into one unit against the world, the ultimate goal.

A mate is the post you lean on, the person who, when you've really screwed up, loves you anyway. The only way to get that kind of mate is to make the dreadful leap of trust and be that kind of mate.


* To be continued tomorrow